Sunday, April 28, 2013

Asking Someone Why They Do Not Believe in God..


I met this wonderful individual this past month who interestingly worked for a Christian company, yet she herself was not a believer.  She is a young lady from the country we serve in and she shared with me how much exposure she had received with the Gospel before and after working for her company.  When I first was speaking with her I had assumed she was like minded because all the others in her company were and I freely was sharing with her my heart for Father and seeing others saved.  I recognized how she responded to my sharing with an expression of feeling uncomfortable so I asked her if she was a believer.  She said she had not made a decision to believe in God and so I then decided to ask her what kept her from making that decision, or in other words, why she did not believe in God.  Now I am going to pause here to give you some thoughts on why I asked this specific question.  Okay, I didn’t really have thoughts before asking this question, but I did feel prompted by the Holy Spirit to ask it.  It was later that I had to ask Him why He led me to ask this somewhat direct question and His answer came in reminding me of this young woman’s response.  She had expressed to me that she had never thought of the reason why she didn’t believe in God before because she was always busy.  Distraction from the world was her stumbling block.  She also mentioned to me how at one time she decided to pray and ask God to help her in a situation with her family, but He did not answer her prayer (at least in the way she was expecting) so she let the idea of their being a God go.  That was my lead into how I could easily help her understand how her barrier to the Gospel was a matter of how she determined the identity of God before knowing who He really is.  I explained to her simply that we were not created to be served by God through our prayers to Him, but that we were created by God to serve Him.  I then gave her a brief testimony of when I, too, was also in need of God’s help in my life and I, too, prayed to Him.  I shared with her how He answered my prayer.  How He didn’t remove me from my difficult situation, but rather promised to walk with me through it.  I continued to explain that if we received answers to prayer the way we feel they should be answered than we don’t understand the idea of a relationship with God in the first place.  He desires a relationship with us and desires for our hearts to please Him.  If a difficult situation comes God will use it to help grow us and change us into a stronger and better person, a person that learns to trust in Him more and more.  His greatest concern will always be for our hearts.  He is a jealous God.  Do we have our eyes on Him?  Are we loving Him more and more?  So many individuals rather choose to test God rather than trust Him.  They will commit only after He has done something for them.  I reminded this young lady, for I knew she had heard the Gospel multiple times, that He had already shown commitment and love to us through Him choosing to die in our place.  Asking Him for anything more than that life sacrifice would be insane on our half.  She looked at me for a moment and didn't say much after I spoke.  I could tell from the expression on her face that my job was done.  He was speaking to her heart.  He had prompted me to ask her why because He wanted the barrier of having a wrong perception of Him removed and challenged.  Sometimes I place people in categories, and do so ashamedly.  I think to myself how this person has had lots of exposure to the Gospel and I don’t need to continue to plant a verbal seed in their heart.  That means my faith needs to grow.. and that I need to continue to trust the prompting of the Spirit to lead me always into conversations that will help bring down those walls built to keep the Truth out.  If I can get the listener of the Gospel to help me understand what their perception of God and or Christianity is and their reasons for not choosing a relationship with Him, then I am able to easily find that wall built up by the enemy and can easily call out the lie and smash it with His Truth.  Everyone has a reason, everyone has a story, we just need to listen with discernment and sensitivity to the Spirit in how to minister to each heart and then let Him do the rest.  Pray for this young lady to make time and think about choosing to trust in her Creator.